Texting with a guy who’s in a flirty, suggestive, or straight-up horny mood can be a delicate balance. Maybe you enjoy the attention but don’t want things to escalate too fast. Maybe you want to keep him interested without giving in too easily or setting the wrong expectations. The key is teasing, controlling the pace, and keeping him intrigued while keeping your boundaries intact.
Here’s how to keep the conversation playful, seductive, and in your control:
1. Keep It Playful & Mysterious
Don’t shut him down completely, but don’t make it too easy for him either. Keep your responses flirty yet vague—just enough to keep him guessing.
Example:
💬 Him: I wish you were here right now…
💬 You: Oh? And what exactly do you think would happen if I was?
💬 Him: Damn, you’re driving me crazy.
💬 You: I do that effortlessly 😉
2. Flip the Script on Him
Make him work for it instead of letting him direct the conversation. If he starts getting too forward, turn the focus back on him.
Example:
💬 Him: I can’t stop thinking about your body…
💬 You: Oh really? Tell me, what exactly do you like the most?
💬 Him: You have no idea what I’d do to you right now.
💬 You: Hmm, I like hearing a man’s imagination at work. Let’s see how creative you can be.
By making him describe things instead of just reacting, you shift the power dynamic in your favor.
3. Make Him Wait for It
A little delayed gratification makes everything more exciting. If he’s pushing the conversation in one direction, slow things down instead of immediately indulging him.
Example:
💬 Him: I need to see you in something sexy.
💬 You: Patience, patience… the best things come to those who wait.
💬 Him: Send me a pic, I wanna see what I’m missing.
💬 You: You’re cute when you beg 😏
Keeping things playful keeps him hooked without actually giving in.
4. Be Suggestive Without Being Explicit
Instead of outright rejecting his advances, keep your responses cheeky and light while keeping the real action off the table.
Example:
💬 Him: Damn, I need you right now.
💬 You: Well, that’s a shame. I’m just over here being all innocent and adorable.
💬 Him: I’d love to be in bed with you right now.
💬 You: I bet you would. But would you be able to behave?
This keeps the tension alive while keeping the control in your hands.
5. Change the Mood When Needed
If he’s getting too pushy, shift the topic subtly without making it awkward.
Example:
💬 Him: I can’t stop thinking about all the things I’d do to you.
💬 You: That’s cute. But have you ever tried thinking about something other than my body? 😂
💬 Him: You’re driving me crazy. Let’s just meet up already.
💬 You: All in good time. Meanwhile, what’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
This lets you redirect the conversation while still keeping things engaging and fun.
6. Set the Pace & Keep Him Wanting More
The biggest mistake you can make? Giving in too quickly or shutting him down too hard. Keep things balanced—just enough to keep him craving more, but not enough for him to feel satisfied.
If you keep the mystery, playfulness, and power dynamic in your favor, he’ll stay hooked.
At the end of the day, you set the tone. You’re in control. So enjoy the game, keep him chasing, and make sure he knows that if he wants more, he’s going to have to earn it. 😉